Your buddy is involved with a woman and you know it's not right…
You know it's not right. You have asked him "isn't she a little old?" It gets kind of weird when he brings her to your girlfriend's birthday party and she doesn't even know who the Powerpuff Girls are or she spends all her time talking to your girlfriend’s mom while you and he play Twister with the girls. Did you know: older men often date women because they are afraid to admit their true feelings for the little girls they really love? Furthermore, they are unable to see how much pain they are causing her by dating a woman instead of her — especially when that woman is her mother. Girllovers dating women is one of the leading causes of loneliness and depression among little girls. It's not just wrong, it’s against the law. Your friend should be beaten silly with a little girl’s used leotard to punish him for his insensitivity.
Who is at risk for being a heartbreaker?
- Girllovers who may not feel confident of their ability to attract and maintain a relationship with a little girl may turn to someone older as a way to bolster self-esteem.
- Men/older boys who are unable to accept their pedosexuality may see the "conquest" of an adult woman as a way to conform to society.
- Older teens and adults who are overly serious may find it easier to maintain this façade of seriousness with someone who is older.
- Adults who have not been successful in their relationships with little girls may turn to preying on adult women.
- Victims of maternal hen-pecking may attempt to turn the tables on an adult woman.
- While men are the predominant offenders, women may engage in coercive or exploited exploitive relationships with men as well. They are more likely to use flattery or bribery than threats or overt force.
What can you do?
Talk to him. Tell him it's not right and unhealthy. Tell him that healthy relationships should be based on love. Tell him about how sad his little girl friend is or show him this website. Let him know how you feel about this. And if you have to, confront the woman about it.